Relationships (Part I)
Everything in life is a relationship. In our primary relationships, the ones near the epicenter of our activity, it is never productive to wait for relating to happen. You must creatively create each moment in order for momentum to take place. Guarantee the consistency of each outcome. When the outcome appears blocked, remember that all any blockage represents is a perfect opportunity to begin. “No” is a starting point. Use every blockage like a workout gym. Understand that the heavier the relational weight, the greater the relational possibility. Often times, these relational weights are from ancient karmic memories that have grown into present moment “monsters” through many lifetimes of neglect.
Also, relationships that are extremely enjoyable but lack the sparkling chemistry are huge gifts from the ancient past. Sparkle is but an illusion, one that can be built and then enjoyed if you learn to do the work.
A physical/chemical attraction is the simple comparison of angles, genetic patterns at the core structure of your DNA. In this core of all DNA are crystals that refract and reflect the light that carries all information. The patterns of this are what create all the sensations we refer to as chemistry. If this is the main driving force, the main attraction in a relationship, it will be highly stimulating but definitely shallow. By modern court records, predictable temporal, divorce rates are very high today. This is one of the main contributions to this fact – sparkle is the goal and sparkle is fleeting.
This is why more conscious traditional cultures relied on arranged relationships. Here, a far more permanent event was gathered around the compatibility of core-consciousness. To be with a best friend who, rather than measuring what they were getting out of you, had your gift of many lifetimes in their blood. This was the deepest and most meaningful of all relational experiences. Entering into the vast fields of like-mindedness, discovering lifetimes of deep trust – with such a partnership, the fascination reveals much later on amongst the depth of this trust.