Can you look at someone you are closely related to and not want them to be different? You can't. We all have an image. Yet to be able to look at someone, to experience them without wanting them to be different will allow you for the first time ever to experience them as they are. This is completely different from any way you have ever experienced them. The effect of experiencing someone as they really are is so overwhelming to your heart that you cannot imagine . . . the joy of that moment is beyond the beyond.