You Must Create Each Moment in a Relationship
In our primary relationships — the ones near the epicenter of our activity — it is never productive to wait for relating to happen. You must create each moment in order for momentum to take place. Guarantee the consistency of each outcome consistently. When outcomes appear to be blocked, remember; each blockage represents a perfect opportunity to begin. "No," is a starting point. Use every blockage like a workout gym. Understand that the heavier the relational weight, the greater the relational possibility. Often times these relational weights are from ancient karmic memories that have grown into present moment "monsters" through many lifetimes of neglect. Also, relationships that are extremely enjoyable but lack the sparkling chemistry are gifts from the ancient past as well. Sparkle is but an illusion — an illusion that can be built upon and enjoyed if you learn to do the work.