Do Not Avoid Sadness or Grief, They Are Indicators of What is Required
Survival is the instinctual avoidance of death. Death is only a death of the five senses and the five elements . . . not of the being. Grief and mourning at a death are the gauges that sit on the dash board of life; they indicate the fragility of awareness, not of life.These emotions are not bad; though they are painful, they are powerful indicators of the inner movements in awareness that is now required. This is the movement needed to relocate the eternal threads and infinite facets of the relational connections. These are what are known as the ecto-plasmic connections.
This is all about the power of subtle moments — this is a moment requiring deep and uninterrupted meditation. Do not avoid or ignore this sadness — use it to shift the physical gears over to their non-physical natures. When sadness indicates you are off this course — pause, recalibrate, and recommit to reconciling it. Do not change the sadness — change the course. Pass through sadness and exchange the ecto-plasmic connections for the connections of pure spirit that exist just "beyond" the physical.
In living - true - relationships — with choices that are no longer of your choosing and where there are no options in the options — you have completely let go of holding back. You have no plan "B" and there is no back-doors available. There is only the most valuable possession possible . . . the relationships beyond the doorway of death. The five elements and the five senses have been left at this doorway; the physical limitations are now transcended, but the relationship is even more alive and far truer.