Building Identities


While building the tribes into community or relationships into unity, you will establish identity through your excellence or your obstinance. By being collaborative rather than competitive, you are envisioning an ideal content, while disposing consciously of its impenetrable packaging. You are allowing the balance to balance the polarities – both the positives and the negatives. In the process, display great patience. Patience is not sitting and waiting, but sitting and knowing. Patience is holding the ‘space’ of achievement with the ‘place’ of absolute willingness. In the sailing of a relationship, ‘Place’ is the position of your sails. ‘Destiny’ is where you are going and ‘Purpose’ is the pathway between where you are and where you are going. The winds are the circumstances of the infinite possibilities of the ‘Space.” In these infinite possibilities are the infinite solutions awaiting your patience to unfold them.

In the process of building this community, social, business or other, trust everyone for who they are and allow them to be that – all the while having tremendous encouragement for them becoming who they long to be. Remember that all life, at the core, longs to be included, never excluded. To be inclusive, rather than exclusive.

To this end, it’s essential that your voice be reasonable in tone, while you are unreasonable in your commitment. There can be no audible absolutes on your voice-print of this commitment – the tone must be flexible and yet the commitment absolutely firm. Absolutes in your tone will always set up a rebuttal, which will in turn set up an argument. When your tone is flexible, and there is a guarantee in your absolute commitment, there is nothing to rebut and you convey a sense of total security.

Patience, when accompanied by such security, is a guarantee. Your needs will be met by gratitude that your needs will be met. Humee hum, Brahm hum – this is Sanskrit for such a realization.