When you calibrate your senses to find something, you will find something. You calibrate your senses by creating a habitual thought pattern. In other words, if you think someone is a jerk, habitually you think someone is a jerk, they will not be able to prove otherwise. Your receptive only to the components of their activity that are a jerk. Now it's really obvious from this long winded description that this is fiction. That this opinion that this person is a jerk is fictional. This person is many things including they have some jerkiness about them but the only particles that you are receiving in your receptacles are the jerky particles and therefore, that person is an absolutely certifiable jerk by your view. You could go to great lengths to describe how that person is what that person is because you have mastered this in the evolutionary process of surviving.